Sat.Oct 22, 2011 - Fri.Oct 28, 2011

Ron Edmondson

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5 Ways to Tell If You’ve Forgiven Someone

Ron Edmondson

“And whenever you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against anyone, so that your Father also who is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.” Mark 11:25. bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. Colossians 3:13. Whether in business, in church, or in family, relationships can cause pain and separation.

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7 Ways to Respond to a Lazy Co-Worker

Ron Edmondson

I’ve always valued hard work and usually resented lazy workers. I started working when I was 12 years old in a grocery store. I worked hard, gained the recognition of my managers, and was rewarded with all the hours I wanted to work. The store was a revolving door of workers it seemed. I worked with some guys who didn’t last long, because they really didn’t want to work.

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7 Issues to Address in Pre-Marital Counseling

Ron Edmondson

As with most pastors, I’ve performed a fair number of weddings. Part of being in ministry is helping couples enter the most important of relationships…marriage. It’s a daunting task and responsibility. Prior to a wedding, however, a minister has access to speak into a couple’s life in a way unique to any other time in their life. I feel it’s important to help couples, as much as I can, be prepared for marriage.

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I’m the Leader, It’s Not by Job to Make You Happy

Ron Edmondson

I encounter people who think it’s someone else’s job, perhaps my job as a leader, to make them happy. You may have also seen this same expectation of a spouse, a friend, or a parent. Some people expect other people to make them happy. In fact, to me, that doesn’t even seem fair to the person wanting happiness. I may define happiness different than they do.

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Trouble Communicating? Try Writing a Letter

Ron Edmondson

(I posted this several years ago. It remains one post that I’ve printed more than any other to give to individuals I meet with in my office. I decided it was worth sharing again.). I want to encourage you to write a letter today (if needed). In counseling people who are experiencing difficulty in a relationship I have often encouraged them to practice the art of letter-writing.

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It looked easy…Until I became one…

Ron Edmondson

Parenting looked easy…until I became one. Leading looked easy…until I became one. Pastoring looked easy…until I became one. Husbandry looked easy…until I became one. Blogging looked easy…until I became one. Church planting looked easy…until I became one. Writing looked easy…until I became one. Go ahead: Add to my list! Related posts: Strong Words For Preachers (and others).

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A Guaranteed Way to Improve All Communication

Ron Edmondson

Do you want to improve communication in a relationship? Remove the barrier…. In almost all miscommunication, there is a barrier to communicating effectively. Find the barrier, remove…or at least address it, and communication will improve every time. I guarantee it. (Or your money back for this advice. ). The barrier may be: A personality difference… A perception… A thing….

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