May, 2011

Ron Edmondson

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5 Wrong Ways to Respond to Criticism

Ron Edmondson

Criticism accompanies leadership. The only way to avoid criticism is to do nothing. If a leader is taking an organization somewhere, and really even if he or she isn’t, someone will criticize his or her efforts. The way a leader responds to criticism says much about the maturity of the leader and the quality of his or her leadership. Here are 5 wrong ways to respond to criticism: Finding fault with the critic – Instead of admitting there might be validity to the criticism, many leade

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7 Things Forgiveness is NOT….

Ron Edmondson

We get confused about what forgiveness is and what it isn’t. Maybe we don’t really know sometimes. Forgiveness is not an option for the believer. We are to forgive others as we have been forgiven. For most of us (all of us if we will admit it), that’s a whole lot of forgiveness. Understanding forgiveness doesn’t make it easier to forgive, but it does make it more meaningful…perhaps even tolerable…but I believe understanding the process could make us more likel

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7 Things Forgiveness IS…

Ron Edmondson

I often wonder if the reason we don’t forgive as we should is because we don’t understand the subject well enough. Yesterday I posted 7 Things that Forgiveness is NOT. It seems appropriate to also post 7 things that forgiveness IS. Here are 7 things that forgiveness IS: Letting go of a right to get even – You give up the right for revenge when you forgive someone.

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10 Things You Can’t Change and 10 Things You Can

Ron Edmondson

There are some things we can’t change and some things we can. Learning the difference and adjusting accordingly is in large part one of the secret’s of a happy life. Concentrating more on the things you can’t change than on the things you can causes frustration, disappointment, and even depression. Let me list a few and you’ll see what I mean.

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7 Suggestions When Interviewing for a Church Staff Position

Ron Edmondson

This week I had two people email through my blog asking for suggestions when interviewing with a church for a staff position. I am thinking it could be an issue worth addressing. Having sit on both sides of the table, here are 7 suggestions: Know your audience – Do as much research as you can about the church. Ask who will be in the interview and what role they have in the church.

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5 Types of Church Visitors

Ron Edmondson

One thing pastors love is church visitors. Really, what we like even more is church visitors who become regular church attenders, but that process begins with visitors. It’s always a mystery why some visit a church and never come back. Those reasons may be the subject of another post, but one thing I’ve learned, much of the chance for return depends on why the person chooses to visit in the first place.

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Book Giveaway: I Quit: Stop Pretending Everything is Fine

Ron Edmondson

Here’s a book I requested to give away on my blog. I don’t know the author, and honestly I don’t remember how I received this book, perhaps as a request to write a review. Either way, I kept staring at the title and decided to read it. “ I Quit!: Stop Pretending Everything Is Fine and Change Your Life &# by Geri Scazzero is written by a busy pastor’s wife, who had just about burnt out on the church, because of the demands placed upon her.

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