Jesse Lyn Stoner Blog

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The Space Between Coaching and Delegating

Jesse Lyn Stoner Blog

You get a lot of positive feedback for giving great advice and helping solve problems. Your ability to develop a high performance team lies in your ability to recognize the space between coaching and delegating. When managers are coaches, everyone benefits – you, your team and your company.

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How to REALLY Listen

Jesse Lyn Stoner Blog

But I’ve learned that simply listening can be more helpful than the best advice I might give.”. My friend Jake said, “When someone tells me about a problem, I used to try to help them solve it. Jake is not alone. Many of us equate listening with problem-solving, and we don’t even realize it.

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2014 in Review – My Top 10 Blog Posts

Jesse Lyn Stoner Blog

It’s an opportunity to take my own advice and reflect on the big picture before I jump into the new year. I have come to look forward to my annual end of the year review of my blog. It always provides some insights and some surprises. The past two years, I have written my review sitting in a cozy chair by a fire in my New England home.

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2015 in Review – My Top 10 Blog Posts

Jesse Lyn Stoner Blog

I get to take my own advice – to reflect on the big picture, look for patterns, and see what I can learn. My year-end review has become one of my favorite posts to write. Here’s what I found: ➤ A record number of page views – over a half-million during 2015! ➤ A record number of awards and recognition this year! ➤

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Why My “5 Around” Group is Important to Me and Why You Should Start One

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It’s not a support group to get advice or complain, although we might do that also. Tonight I asked them this question: what advice would you give to others who are thinking of starting a group, and why would you recommend it? Here’s what they said: Advice for starting a group: A good size is about 4 to 7 people.

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The Best Way to Listen

Jesse Lyn Stoner Blog

When I ask you to listen to me and you start giving me advice, you have not done what I asked. This poem is an oldie, but still on-target. I couldn’t think of a better way to make the point. Please Listen Poem. When I ask you to listen to me and you begin to tell me why I shouldn’t feel that way, you are trampling on my feelings.

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6 Tips to Increase Your Visibility at Work Without “Self-Promoting”

Jesse Lyn Stoner Blog

It’s an easy read, packed with helpful advice. I am delighted to host his guest post, one example of the kind of clear, practical advice he offers. A personal note from Jesse: I really enjoyed Joel’s excellent new book, Getting Ahead: Three Steps to Take Your Career to the Next Level.

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