Building Personal Strength

AUGUST 13, 2010

It's been more than a decade since Daniel Goleman came out with his book, Emotional Intelligence. Goleman's strategy was to put them all in one basket and call it "emotional intelligence." To be fair, I'd like to add that Goleman is a brilliant writer and has worked tirelessly in this area for all the right reasons.

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HR Digest

JULY 21, 2023

” The concept gained widespread recognition in 1995 with the publication of Daniel Goleman’s book, “Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ.” ” Goleman argued that emotional intelligence is a critical predictor of success in life and the workplace.

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Great Leadership By Dan

MARCH 26, 2013

Yes, according to Daniel Goleman. It’s just that the companies that do it so well and get positive results are truly committed and take no shortcuts. I'm looking for criteria to identify "business critical roles" to narrow the list of positions for succession planning purposes. Any recommendations?

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The Practical Leader

AUGUST 16, 2023

He authored 57 books, including a book on his experiences as a Jewish prisoner in the Auschwitz and Buchenwald concentration camps. In Working with Emotional Intelligence , Daniel Goleman reports, “The leader is a key source of the organization’s emotional tone.

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The Practical Leader

FEBRUARY 8, 2012

In a Harvard Business Review article entitled “Social Intelligence and the Biology of Leadership” Daniel Goleman and Richard Boyatzis write about “an important lesson from neuroscience: Because our behavior creates and develops neural networks, we are not necessarily prisoners of our genes and our early childhood experiences.

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Persuasive Powerhouse

NOVEMBER 10, 2010

All of the information he provided was given in a positive way, without rushing. It reminds me of the research that Gallup did (chronicled in the book How Full Is Your Bucket by Tom Rath) that identified the optimal mix of positive to negative comments as 5 to 1. How often we forget the impact our own attitude has on others.

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Harvard Business Review

MAY 4, 2015

Two decades before Daniel Goleman first wrote about emotional intelligence in the pages of HBR, he met his holiness the 14 th Dalai Lama at Amherst College, who mentioned to the young science journalist for the New York Times that he was interested in meeting with scientists. Goleman: Yes, an important difference.

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Your Voice of Encouragement

JUNE 28, 2012

When you want to make a major change – even if it would have a positive impact on your life – a part of your brain called the amygdala gets activated and triggers a fear response. The examples and other strategies outlined in Maurer’s book could be just what you need if you’ve been paralyzed by fear. You have to react quickly.

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Coaching Tip

SEPTEMBER 15, 2013

People are not going to be able to make progress on building positive relationships or mastering academics until they’d gotten help with their social and emotional issues. . Daniel Goleman, Annie McKee, Richard E. Books Communication Memes Personal Coaching Personal Life Self-Awareness Skills Success' Mark Goulston M.D.:

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Persuasive Powerhouse

JANUARY 19, 2011

According to my experiences, working with happiness, motivation, humor and confidence will make things more effective and much easier, since we have a positive attitude. Love work, love colleagues and love ourselves. Mary Jo Asmus : January 24, 2011 at 7:47 am Meng, you have a great attitude, and I bet others like working with you.

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Persuasive Powerhouse

AUGUST 31, 2010

This book highlights Paul’s significant experience in a 40-year career of managing people and as a well-respected consultant to managers and their organizations across the globe. In the interest of full disclosure, I owe a lot to Paul (including his delivery of my own free signed copy of his book).

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Tony Mayo

JULY 17, 2009

Top Executive Coaching with Tony Mayo About Tony Mayo Newsletter Sign-up Sections Client Comments For Executive Coaches For Executives For Fun For Salespeople Quotes and Aphorisms Recommended Books Technology Tips Videos & Podcasts Popular Posts Twitter Log IX About Tony Mayo Truth or Consequences?

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Persuasive Powerhouse

JANUARY 17, 2011

They learned how to give constructive feedback to each other and agreed that they needed to assure that positive feedback and expressing points of agreement in a debate were needed. Will they stay true? I wonder if they will be able to stay true to the commitments they’ve made to work together when the going gets tough.

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Persuasive Powerhouse

NOVEMBER 1, 2010

Positive and Realistic: You can go far on a positive attitude. Positivity is energizing and encouraging, keeping your followers going in good times and bad. Realism combined with positivity grounds you in truth and allows you to reject the impractical. Having a positive attitude affirms individuals that surround you.

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Persuasive Powerhouse

JANUARY 19, 2011

If no one on your team is capable of being trained for your role, you need to know others in the organization (or even outside the company) who would be good fits for your position. Meng: January 23, 2011 at 4:00 am Right now I am just a graduate student and definitely not in a leader position. Stay in touch with those people.

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Persuasive Powerhouse

DECEMBER 28, 2010

In internally competitive organizations with people competing for scarce positions of autonomy, this doesn’t play well. Learning new things makes people feel vulnerable until they master the new skill. There could be a 90-day lag period where performance is less than stellar.

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Persuasive Powerhouse

OCTOBER 2, 2010

Cheer for your favorite players from the Big Ten: Our regular referee for the carnival positions himself in the backfield today, but will return for the next game in November. Anne Perchel of Germane Consulting shows us the magnificence of our minds in Book Review: What Goes On Inside Our Heads. if No Action is Taken. reddit_url = [.]

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Persuasive Powerhouse

JULY 26, 2010

First, encouraging, coaching, + nurturing individuals in ways that establish patterns of work which improve the odds positive results will be sought creatively (I esp. In his book ‘Employees First, Customers Second’, he mentions that employees are the value creators in an organization.

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Persuasive Powerhouse

AUGUST 10, 2010

I have even seen that sometimes, these people also reconsider joining the same organization again, just because they had positive experiences at workplace when they left. And yes, it is great for branding, because an employee/peer who walks out with a good feeling spreads the word and talks about his/her exit experience.

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Persuasive Powerhouse

AUGUST 8, 2010

Some of these clients got lucky and found positions in different parts of the same company before the firing squad came. Often what it comes down to is that their manager is not willing to wait for the time it takes my client to make some changes to their leadership.

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Persuasive Powerhouse

OCTOBER 10, 2010

When we are intentional about our words, we can choose to spread positive emotion or negative emotion; to lift or deflate. To be intentionally positive is the key to making gratefulness a habit in our lives. I think many of us have a natural tendency to want to downplay positive events, for fear of the ensuing negative event.

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Persuasive Powerhouse

NOVEMBER 28, 2010

And so this becomes the lens through which we view others: “He has an attitude problem and just cannot work on team&# , or, “She is a high performer, but couldn’t possibly step up to a position in the C-suite&#. What if your beliefs change to others’ potential instead? Thanks for the great post.

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Persuasive Powerhouse

SEPTEMBER 9, 2010

Louise Altman : September 9, 2010 at 5:36 pm Hi Mary Jo, You know what is so important about using Appreciative Inquiry – we now know from the latest neuroscience research that every time we acknowledge what works, what is positive, we are activating the pleasure part of our brains. Oh there is nothing “soft&# about this stuff.

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Persuasive Powerhouse

AUGUST 25, 2010

Upbeat and positive, people loved being around him. Best, Tanmay Mole Chapman : August 25, 2010 at 10:19 am indeed, I’m always stuck by the human capacity to contribute positively to others. As leaders, we are in the valued position to make a tremendous impression. Thanks for this post MJ!

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Persuasive Powerhouse

NOVEMBER 23, 2010

Jennifer, it is so much more positive to think in these terms, isn’t it? And I know you and I are there to help people FIND their own. Happy Thanksgiving, Mary JO. Mary Jo Asmus : November 24, 2010 at 4:46 pm Yathi, those are my favorites too. Hmmm… I wonder when I’ll be ready to re-find my grey hair?)

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Persuasive Powerhouse

JULY 27, 2010

Reeve chose to dedicate the rest of his life to being a positive force, raising funds and awareness for spinal cord injuries. Yet only a few short months after his accident, he was appearing on television and telling the world what a lucky many he was.

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Persuasive Powerhouse

NOVEMBER 21, 2010

Everything she does is with a positive attitude and she never gives up. Carina, you are such a positive force with your blog comments. We have tried to make him feel like he’s a part of the team and to try to show him the importance of his position but to no avail. Inspiration is all around us. How about you? Keep it up!

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Persuasive Powerhouse

NOVEMBER 15, 2010

Supporting growth and development will positively affect the goals your organization is attempting to achieve. To be conscious of integrating “ings” in our work fosters a very positive environment. It’s such a simple thing to do and it contributes to an employee’s positive closure of a job well done. Thanks again!

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Persuasive Powerhouse

JUNE 15, 2010

Simmons C-level Strategies and Awakenings Execupundit Fistful of Talent Great Leadership HR Bartender Inflexion Point John Baldoni Leading Blog Management Excellence Managing Leadership Michael Lee Stallard Mountain State University LeaderTalk QAspire Blog: Tanmay Vora Ramblings from a Glass Half Full Reflections for Personal and Business Development (..)

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Persuasive Powerhouse

NOVEMBER 8, 2010

The act of reflecting can us to become aware of our past actions in order to impact the future in a positive way. For every decision, there are often positive results and less-than-positive results. I found your suggestion of reflecting on prior events or decisions that had a positive outcome very beneficial.

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Persuasive Powerhouse

SEPTEMBER 29, 2010

Having an awareness of the values that motivate you are key to the kind of leadership that will impact you and others in a positive way. But I never put an effort to check whether I have changed in a positive way. I picked three most important value cards and put them in my wallet and looked at every time I open my wallet.

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Persuasive Powerhouse

JULY 21, 2010

Positive and “corrective” feedback is given freely and without consequences to the messenger. They are instead orchestrating workplaces with significance and meaning for employees and customers. Leaders receive honest feedback on a regular basis without asking for it.

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Persuasive Powerhouse

SEPTEMBER 6, 2010

Every action, every gesture and every word out of a leader’s mouth can influence in a positive or a negative way; either way impacts the bottom line. It’s energizing, in this day of all the bad stories about leaders gone wrong, to hear stories of the wonderful leaders (including moms) who positively influenced our lives.

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Persuasive Powerhouse

DECEMBER 5, 2010

If not, consider your fall back position (are you willing to negotiate for “part time&# if you can’t get what you asked for?). If someone is looking for a mentor to work with consistently over a longer period of time, even if it is a CEO – my advice is to “just ask&# – you might get what you ask for.

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Persuasive Powerhouse

SEPTEMBER 13, 2010

I was young and had a lot at stake in my position – I was the major breadwinner in my family and felt the weight of the responsibility to provide for my young children. He ultimately took the tyrant out of a management position at the company (in today’s world, this individual may have been fired). How have you been responsible?

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Persuasive Powerhouse

JUNE 20, 2010

In a world devoid of positive feedback, you can make a difference. When you have the gift of clarity, you must speak up so that others can also see in order to act. What is clear to you that others have not yet realized? Gratefulness , when personally cultivated by you, is a gift that your followers need.

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Persuasive Powerhouse

JANUARY 2, 2011

blind spots are not always weaknesses; they may be positive traits too). Instead of focusing on the past behavior – which you cannot change – ask people to give you one or two suggestions for positive changes you can make in this area going forward. In the latter case, I’ll want to learn to lighten up.

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