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Influencing Up

Marshall Goldsmith

Be sensitive to the need to win trivial nonbusiness arguments on things like restaurants, sports teams or cars. Present a realistic cost-benefit analysis of your ideas--don't just sell benefits. In an academic institution the goal may be sharing ideas, not impacting the world. Nobody wins.

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Effectively Influencing Decision Makers: Ensuring That Your Knowledge Makes a Difference

Marshall Goldsmith

Be especially sensitive to the need to win trivial non-business arguments on things like restaurants, sports teams or cars. Present a realistic “cost-benefitanalysis of your ideas – don’t just sell benefits. Successful people love getting ideas aimed at helping them achieve their goals for the future.

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Are You Too Afraid to Succeed?

Harvard Business Review

Did a parent, another family member, or a teacher, or a sports coach keep telling you that you weren’t very capable or likeable, or never seem to be satisfied with your work, no matter how well you performed? Could he do a “cost-benefit analysis” of what it meant to be successful? Think back to your childhood.