The Recovering Engineer

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Can Every Conflict Be Resolved?

The Recovering Engineer

Sadly, there are situations where the cost of the agreement exceeds the value that one or the other party (possibly both parties) assign to the relationship. The cost of the agreement can be measured in terms of the financial, emotional, or physical effort implications of accepting the changed behavior.

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Six Questions to Ask for Successful Collaboration

The Recovering Engineer

For example, if we must trade quality or time in order to save costs, how much quality or time are we prepared to sacrifice to save money? Most of the problems we solve using this process could be solved in many different ways and every solution will have its own set of benefits and drawbacks.

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Emotions are the Greatest Barrier to Change

The Recovering Engineer

What will it cost them? Before you communicate about a change, think how others might view it. What are they losing? During the change, listen for the emotions people express in addition to the facts that they bring to your attention. Make it easier to do things the new way.

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The 7 Deadly Sins of Conflict Resolution | Guy Harris: The.

The Recovering Engineer

And, this business problem is probably costing you more than you first realize when you consider the salaries of the involved employees, the value of work that is not being done, the cost of poor decision quality, the impact of poor information flow, etc. Unresolved conflict gets expensive very quickly.

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The ABC’s of Life: Express Thanks

The Recovering Engineer

In the end, it cost me almost nothing, and it was encouraging to her. There was no reason for her to remember. It was important, though, to let her know that I had remembered, and that her kindness made a difference for someone. I would call that a great return on investment.

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Take It, Leave It, or Change It

The Recovering Engineer

The decision was to do a “cost-benefit analysis&# of our new situation. do your “cost-benefit analysis&# and choose one of these options: Take It Accept the change with all of its good and bad components, and realize that it is your choice to stay. Did it offer us more positive or more negative? Here’s the thought.

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Why The Health Care Reform Debate Makes Me Sick

The Recovering Engineer

Personally, I don’t think the conversation to define the root cause of why the health care system cost structure is so high has been held sufficiently. So, jumping to a discussion about how to pay for the high cost is a little premature. Is the current insurance payment system part of the problem? I would agree that it is.