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How to Resolve the Roots of Disagreement

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For example, John’s glass vase was broken when Carlos dropped it. Most disagreements are due to differing interpretations of the facts. This is an objective fact – an event that occurred. John is angry because he believes Carlos did it on purpose. John’s interpretation of the event is what creates meaning and emotion. If Carlos […].

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Why People Don’t Notice You’ve Changed

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For example, David had […]. Or you can end up in a situation where people don’t notice you’ve changed – where you’ve become a butterfly, but others still see a caterpillar. The post Why People Don’t Notice You’ve Changed appeared first on Seapoint Center for Collaborative Leadership.

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Emergent Leadership Topples the Pyramid

Jesse Lyn Stoner Blog

For example, you might think leaders should be directive or participative or both depending on the situation. In the traditional, hierarchical view, senior leaders are at the top of the organization and ensure the organization fulfills its mission effectively. → Read More: Emergent Leadership Topples the Pyramid.

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Change Your Story, Change Your Organization

Jesse Lyn Stoner Blog

For example, the phrase the “American Dream” evokes a story that has inspired generations to believe that no matter who they are, by working hard, they have the opportunity to succeed. Guest Post by Peggy Holman Like a great wave, cultural stories carry us along, creating a coherent view of our world.

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The True Test of a Vision

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Time and again, we see examples of companies that […]. Consider the seamless transition at Southwest Airlines when founder Herb Kelleher stepped down compared with Disney’s two decades of floundering after the death of Walt Disney.

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6 Self-Serving Team Behaviors That Will Torpedo Your Team

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For example, if the problem is that you get distracted easily, team members might find some fun ways to help you refocus when that happens. These are all examples of how serving yourself is also serving your team. When you identify in a non-judgmental way what is difficult for you, your team is likely to be willing to make changes.

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Be a Leader People Want to Follow

Jesse Lyn Stoner Blog

Do you lead by example? To lead without relying on authority, your most powerful Portal of Influence is your character. Character is the expression of who you are. When your character is built on a foundation of integrity, people trust you. Are you honest, respectful, and authentic? Are you consistent.