Terry Starbucker

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Why Automatic Pilot Is A Button A Leader Should Never Push

Terry Starbucker

It’s hard to resist sometimes, I know. You must resist. If you decide to succumb to temptation, and hit the auto-pilot button, effectively just “ mailing it in “, then momentum will almost certainly stop. I’ve hit that button a time or two, despite my better judgement, and paid the price.

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Why The More Human Leader Must Be Tough, As Well As Nice

Terry Starbucker

I can tell you this – go for it, it will be worth the resistance you may encounter. There is some intestinal fortitude demanded here. Despite this research, in many workplaces it’s still a “one or the other” proposition. Be More Human. As Zenger and Folkman so aptly state, “The two approaches are like the oars of a boat. Lead well!

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(Beware of) The 7 Deadly Leadership Sins

Terry Starbucker

Therefore, we must diligently use that self-awareness, and resist these temptations. Commit one, and we lose a key element of our team dynamic. If we succumb to all of them, the team completely falls apart. Wrath – If we are quick to anger, and take that anger out on our teammates, they cannot learn. They will only fear.

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Coming To Terms With The Six Most Important Words

Terry Starbucker

But it’s a pull that must be resisted. Because if we do admit that we can be (and are) wrong, then our teammates, bosses and peers will think less of us. That’s a powerful pull to the hubris lever.

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A Leadership Oldie But Goodie: Be An Enabler, Not a Disabler

Terry Starbucker

I can personally attest it’s a pretty strong thing to resist. But resist we must, because from a leadership perspective enabling reveals something else – our effectiveness in selecting and hiring teammates. It takes a good degree of courage to let something go, since as humans I think we have a tendency to be control freaks.

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It’s At The Top Of Your List For a Reason: Don’t Put Off The Hard Stuff

Terry Starbucker

It’s human nature to gravitate towards the path of least resistance, and I must confess, there were times I succumbed and skipped the doozy. Sure I could. But I had put it at the top of my list or a very good reason. It was the most IMPORTANT one, remember? And I always regretted it later. And I have Brother George to thank for it.

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Tough or Nice? Be Both, And Be Great

Terry Starbucker

I can tell you this – go for it, it will be worth the resistance you may encounter. There is some “intestinal fortitude” demanded here. Despite this research, in many workplaces it’s still a “one or the other” proposition. Be More Human. Both need to be used with equal force” .

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