The Recovering Engineer

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Three Communication Strategies Guaranteed to Irritate Others

The Recovering Engineer

In today’s post, I’m going to share three communication strategies that are virtually guaranteed to irritate other people, and I’ll tell you what to do instead. If you really want to irritate another person, use these three “I” communication strategies*…. I can, however, identify several definitively wrong ways to do it.

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Conflict De-escalation Strategies: Control Your Tone and Body Language

The Recovering Engineer

To become a master of conflict resolution, you need to learn more than a basket of tips, techniques, strategies, and phrases. Conflict De-escalation Strategies: Control Your Tone and Body Language. Five Ways to De-escalate a Conflict. Listening as a Tool to De-escalate Conflicts. Using Apology to De-escalate a Conflict.

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Three Ways to Deal with an Angry Person

The Recovering Engineer

In my effort to master this skill, I have learned that having pre-planned strategies often helps me to keep my cool and to manage the situation more calmly. One strategy you can use to apply this concept is to move the conversation to what you would like the person to DO in the FUTURE using The Power of AND. Positive actions.

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Three Critical Factors to Consider Before You Choose a Communication Technique

The Recovering Engineer

The foundational principles and core ideas combined with the three factors accounts for the wide range of possible communication strategies you could apply in a given situation. The bottom-line is this: if you are looking for silver-bullet, one-size-fits-all communication strategies – look no further. You will not find them.

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You Cannot Punish People into Good Behavior

The Recovering Engineer

This observation implies that leaders can hope to eliminate “bad&# behaviors by using punishment and discipline strategies. According to the model, punishments (negative or unpleasant consequences) can reduce the likelihood that a behavior will repeat in the future. And, you might achieve partial success.

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Three Questions to Consider Before you Speak Assertively

The Recovering Engineer

As I speak, write, coach, and train on the application of assertive communication techniques and strategies, I get many questions related to this topic. One critical skill in the complicated mess of conflict resolution is assertive communication.

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Being Too Nice Can Hurt You | Guy Harris: The Recovering Engineer

The Recovering Engineer

People with supportive traits often use passive communication strategies in an effort to ease tensions and reduce conflicts. While these strategies are sometimes useful and necessary, I recommend learning to use them intentionally when appropriate rather than as a default because they are more comfortable.