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What’s on your mind before you make a new networking connection, negotiate a deal, or entertain ways of working with someone? If you’re like most folks, you’re thinking about what you want and how to get it. It may not surprise you that the folks you’re meeting with are thinking the same thing. MORE
Get Motivated and Take Charge of Your Life. Be the person who makes you proud. Follow your grandest dreams. Reach for your highest goals. Do the things that excite you and give you the greatest pleasure. Most of all, live a life that gives you purpose. This isn’t a journey for the faint of heart or for others to take for you. Accept ownership of your life rather than relinquishing that responsibility to others. It’s time to get motivated and take charge of your life. You owe it to yourself. MORE
When you do someone a favor , do you expect them to reciprocate? Or do you give freely , without expecting something in return? Some people expect to benefit every time they do something. It doesn’t matter whether they go out of their way for a friend, perform a chore at home, put in extra hours at the office, bend over backward for a customer, or console a neighbor in a time of need. And even though they might not express their expectation right away, you know it’s coming. MORE
Are You Planning to Go on a Diet? If your diet didn’t work last time, what makes you think it’ll work now? Before you step on the gas again, what did you learn from your last attempt? You did not fail. Your diet failed you! 6 Reasons Why Diets Fail. Here are six reasons why diets (and efforts to break other bad habits) fail: Wishes are just words. Hope without effort is destined to fail. Spend less time thinking and talking and more time doing. Don’t believe in fairytale solutions. MORE
Some people learn from mistakes ; others don’t. That said, some mistakes could be avoided in the first place if people learned from the mistakes of others. As Eleanor Roosevelt said, “Learn from the mistakes of others. You can’t live long enough to make them all yourself.”. MORE
Everyone thinks they’re an expert. They judge style, review restaurants, grade policies, scrutinize movies, evaluate leadership effectiveness, and play Monday-morning quarterback. They even judge the beliefs and values of friends and colleagues. Why are folks so judgmental? MORE
Self-reliance is a term that’s frequently used these days. But even though the term is tossed around, it’s meaningless if you don’t apply the principle to your daily life. Who cares?” you may be thinking. The fact is, YOU should! MORE
If you’re a parent, I’m sure you remember the terrible twos. It’s a normal phase in a child’s development that’s marked by a burning desire for independence. The terrible twos are often accompanied by outbursts, frustration, and defiant behavior. Two-year olds have an insatiable curiosity to explore the world and find a way to get into everything. They’re simply testing boundaries and learning what they can get away with; in some cases, they face consequences for those actions. MORE
Everyone knows the Golden Rule. In fact, numerous religions espouse it, the most familiar version being, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” The question is, if most people know, and agree, with the principle, why don’t more folks live by that standard? Do you abide by the Golden Rule? When you do nothing, nothing happens. If you truly want to live by this principle, the first place to start is to understand its true meaning and how to apply it effectively. MORE
There will be times when your principles are tested. The question is, how will you respond? Will you give in to temptation and compromise your standards or will you stand tall and remain true to your values? It’s easy to say what you’ll do in theory, but your actions count most when the rubber meets the road. Some folks want it both ways. They want to profit, but they also want to feel good about themselves. MORE
Are You All Foam and No Beer? Call it whatever you want: “All bark and no bite; All sizzle and no steak; All show and no go.” The meaning’s still the same — talk is cheap. The fact is, being all talk amounts to nothing more than hollow words. Are you, all foam and no beer? MORE
25 Ways You My Be Stressing Yourself Out. Stressed out? Where does it originate? Next time you feel a knot in your shoulders or a nagging feeling in the pit of your stomach, determine whether one of these things is stressing you out: Are These Things Stressing You Out? Wait until the last minute? MORE
Sometimes, well-intentioned plans have unintended consequences. MORE
Some people spend their whole life searching for happiness. While you may think wealth, power, and fame will make you happy, you may be looking in the wrong place. In fact, all the riches in the world won’t guarantee a happy and fulfilling life. You don’t have to search the globe for happiness because it already exists within you. As Glinda, the Good Witch in The Wizard of Oz , said, “You’ve always had the power, my dear. You just had to learn it for yourself.” MORE
A crisis brings out the best and the worst in us. Some people act like idiots, while others rise to the occasion and show what they’re made of. In fact, it astonishes me how some of the most unlikely people rise to the occasion by displaying extraordinary leadership, selflessness, and grace during tough times. How do you respond to a crisis? Are You Your Best Self in a Crisis? Times of crisis bring out the best in people. I hope they bring out the best in you. MORE
Some people have it all (or so it seems). They have the power, wealth, and status that most people can only dream of. How do you feel about that? Do you view these folks with disapproval and contempt or are you enthusiastic for their success? That depends on how you view the world. Stephen R. MORE
Teach Your Children “How to Fish”. Are you preparing your kids for the real world? As the saying goes, “Give a man a fish, and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish, and you feed him for a lifetime.” Here are 13 guiding principles to teach your kids: Be self-reliant. MORE
Your family is the most precious treasure in your life. The greatest gift you can give your children is a solid set of values. Take a moment to determine how your actions may be affecting them. Remember, if you don’t pass your values on to your kids, someone else will. If you: Teach your kids that money is everything, they’ll stop at nothing to get it. Do everything for your children, you’ll make them feel good for nothing. MORE
Do you find bad news exhausting? The problem is, you can’t escape it. Politicians are grumbling, celebrities are bellyaching, the news media are ranting, and even social media friends are whining. You’d think there’s no good news anymore. Complaining never solved a problem, and it never will. MORE
How to Earn Credibility. Here are 14 factors that contribute to your credibility: Be genuine. Credible people are comfortable in their own skin. They don’t create a false persona to win acceptance, and they don’t allow themselves to be manipulated by others. Be principled. MORE
People will tell you it’s brutal to start a company. They’re right. I know firsthand. I started one. Yet, if you think it’s hard to build a business from scratch, it’s considerably harder to maintain success when the business prospers. Are you coping with success? MORE
How do you react to being told that you did a poor job? The first option is to defend yourself and try to prove the messenger wrong. The alternative is to ask why ? While the first way may protect your ego , the second approach demonstrates your desire to learn — and to do things better next time. How do you react to negative feedback? If you’ve ever watched a dance instructor, mentor, or football coach in action, they continually offer constructive feedback to improve the recipient’s game. MORE
Rules essentially tell you what you can or can’t do in a given situation. There are grammar rules to construct a sentence, rules to play a sport, and even rules to tell you which side of the street to drive on. In essence, they provide structure, stability, and predictability in life. MORE
20 Ingredients of a Marriage Made in Heaven. The most important element of a happy marriage is choosing the right person. Here are 20 other ingredients of a marriage made in heaven: Make your marriage your top priority. There are many things vying for your attention. Know what matters most to you and put your heart into it. Agree on the BIG things. Shared beliefs and values form the heart of every successful relationship and can ultimately determine its success. MORE
I’d like to give a shout-out to all the folks who read, comment, and share my blog posts each day. What would I do without you? FrankSonnenbergOnline has attracted over 3.6 million readers. MORE
Guest Post by LaRae Quy. Life can suck. There are days when things go so badly that you want a refund. We’ve all heard that acceptance is the key to good psychological health, but that does nothing more than leave us in a continual state of anxiety because what we all want is a semblance of control in the way our day unfolds around us. Since life is nothing but a series of problems, the fantasy of control gets flushed down the toilet on a regular basis. MORE
Some students excel at school. They’re in all advanced classes. They skim a page and remember the subject matter — forever. And they raise their hand before the question is even asked. What’s more, they’ve been known to wait till the last minute to study for tests, and you guessed it, they still walk away with an A. Good grades come easy to them. Then there’s the rest of us. MORE
15 Signs That You Need an Attitude Adjustment. Do you need an attitude adjustment? Take the test. Here are 15 signs that you have an attitude problem: “What’s in it for me?” Are you selfless or do you focus primarily on your needs and wants? MORE
Did you ever wonder why some people get so much done while others accomplish so little? It doesn’t matter whether they’re at home or at work, some folks plow through stuff while others never seem to put anything to bed. Of course, you’ll hear ineffective people complain about their workload or the hours they’re putting in, but while they’re busy complaining, others are running circles around them. MORE
Do you ask for help when you need it, or do you view it as a weakness? I’m sure I’m not alone in saying that I hate to ask for directions — even when I’m lost. I’m not sure it’s because I’m embarrassed that I’m clueless or because I don’t want to admit defeat, but my refusal to ask for directions is something I live with. In fact, there was a time when I’d drive around FOREVER until sheer frustration outweighed my unwillingness to ask. Then, only then, I’d ask for assistance. Sound familiar? MORE
It gives me great pleasure to introduce my new book — Listen to Your Conscience: That’s Why You Have One. It’s the product of a great deal of care and reflection and has been a year and a half in the making. Listen to Your Conscience. That’s Why You Have One. MORE
Let me tell you a story about two typical kids you might be familiar with. One of them (we’ll call him John) wasn’t a bad kid, but he didn’t take life very seriously. MORE
How does it feel to win something you don’t deserve, receive something you didn’t earn, or get what you want (in an underhanded way)? Contrast that with the exhilarating feeling of overcoming a big challenge, attaining success through hard work , or leaving a legacy that makes you proud. Do you live an honorable life? The greatest reward of success isn’t the money or acclaim; it’s the confidence and self-respect that success brings with it. MORE
Some lessons are so important that they withstand the test of time. Remember Aesop’s fable The Goose That Laid the Golden Egg ? It’s about a countryman who had a goose that laid a golden egg each day. Unfortunately, the greedy countryman grew impatient because he wasn’t getting rich fast enough. MORE
You’re Only as Good as the Company You Keep. People influence you every day. Do they inspire you or sap your energy? Do they serve as positive role models or negative influences? Do they want what’s best for you, or are they out for themselves? You probably know those who serve as positive or negative influences in your life. Surround yourself with top-notch people. It makes a huge difference. As they say, you’re only as good as the company you keep. MORE
We all play pretend when we’re young. The problem is, when some folks get older, they continue to play pretend. MORE
Frank Sonnenberg Online
NOVEMBER 17, 2020
It gives me great pleasure to introduce my new book — Listen to Your Conscience: That’s Why You Have One. It’s the product of a great deal of care and reflection and has been a year and a half in the making. Listen to Your Conscience. That’s Why You Have One.
Frank Sonnenberg Online
NOVEMBER 24, 2020
How to Earn Credibility. Here are 14 factors that contribute to your credibility: Be genuine. Credible people are comfortable in their own skin. They don’t create a false persona to win acceptance, and they don’t allow themselves to be manipulated by others. Be principled.
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Frank Sonnenberg Online
NOVEMBER 10, 2020
What’s on your mind before you make a new networking connection, negotiate a deal, or entertain ways of working with someone? If you’re like most folks, you’re thinking about what you want and how to get it. It may not surprise you that the folks you’re meeting with are thinking the same thing.
Frank Sonnenberg Online
NOVEMBER 3, 2020
Some lessons are so important that they withstand the test of time. Remember Aesop’s fable The Goose That Laid the Golden Egg ? It’s about a countryman who had a goose that laid a golden egg each day. Unfortunately, the greedy countryman grew impatient because he wasn’t getting rich fast enough.
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Frank Sonnenberg Online
SEPTEMBER 29, 2020
Everyone thinks they’re an expert. They judge style, review restaurants, grade policies, scrutinize movies, evaluate leadership effectiveness, and play Monday-morning quarterback. They even judge the beliefs and values of friends and colleagues. Why are folks so judgmental?
Frank Sonnenberg Online
OCTOBER 27, 2020
Teach Your Children “How to Fish”. Are you preparing your kids for the real world? As the saying goes, “Give a man a fish, and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish, and you feed him for a lifetime.” Here are 13 guiding principles to teach your kids: Be self-reliant.
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Frank Sonnenberg Online
SEPTEMBER 15, 2020
Some people have it all (or so it seems). They have the power, wealth, and status that most people can only dream of. How do you feel about that? Do you view these folks with disapproval and contempt or are you enthusiastic for their success? That depends on how you view the world. Stephen R.
Frank Sonnenberg Online
AUGUST 18, 2020
15 Signs That You Need an Attitude Adjustment. Do you need an attitude adjustment? Take the test. Here are 15 signs that you have an attitude problem: “What’s in it for me?” Are you selfless or do you focus primarily on your needs and wants?
Frank Sonnenberg Online
AUGUST 11, 2020
Some people learn from mistakes ; others don’t. That said, some mistakes could be avoided in the first place if people learned from the mistakes of others. As Eleanor Roosevelt said, “Learn from the mistakes of others. You can’t live long enough to make them all yourself.”.
Frank Sonnenberg Online
JULY 21, 2020
We all play pretend when we’re young. The problem is, when some folks get older, they continue to play pretend.
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Frank Sonnenberg Online
OCTOBER 13, 2020
Self-reliance is a term that’s frequently used these days. But even though the term is tossed around, it’s meaningless if you don’t apply the principle to your daily life. Who cares?” you may be thinking. The fact is, YOU should!
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Frank Sonnenberg Online
OCTOBER 20, 2020
People will tell you it’s brutal to start a company. They’re right. I know firsthand. I started one. Yet, if you think it’s hard to build a business from scratch, it’s considerably harder to maintain success when the business prospers. Are you coping with success?
Frank Sonnenberg Online
SEPTEMBER 22, 2020
25 Ways You My Be Stressing Yourself Out. Stressed out? Where does it originate? Next time you feel a knot in your shoulders or a nagging feeling in the pit of your stomach, determine whether one of these things is stressing you out: Are These Things Stressing You Out? Wait until the last minute?
Frank Sonnenberg Online
SEPTEMBER 8, 2020
Let me tell you a story about two typical kids you might be familiar with. One of them (we’ll call him John) wasn’t a bad kid, but he didn’t take life very seriously.
Frank Sonnenberg Online
AUGUST 25, 2020
Sometimes, well-intentioned plans have unintended consequences.
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Building a benefits program for a diverse workforce has always been a top priority, but now it’s become both more important and complex with so much change and uncertainty. Download our latest guide that features emerging benefits employees expect in 2021 and beyond.
Frank Sonnenberg Online
JULY 28, 2020
Are You All Foam and No Beer? Call it whatever you want: “All bark and no bite; All sizzle and no steak; All show and no go.” The meaning’s still the same — talk is cheap. The fact is, being all talk amounts to nothing more than hollow words. Are you, all foam and no beer?
Frank Sonnenberg Online
SEPTEMBER 1, 2020
Do you find bad news exhausting? The problem is, you can’t escape it. Politicians are grumbling, celebrities are bellyaching, the news media are ranting, and even social media friends are whining. You’d think there’s no good news anymore. Complaining never solved a problem, and it never will.
Frank Sonnenberg Online
AUGUST 27, 2020
I’d like to give a shout-out to all the folks who read, comment, and share my blog posts each day. What would I do without you? FrankSonnenbergOnline has attracted over 3.6 million readers.
Frank Sonnenberg Online
JUNE 16, 2020
Get Motivated and Take Charge of Your Life. Be the person who makes you proud. Follow your grandest dreams. Reach for your highest goals. Do the things that excite you and give you the greatest pleasure. Most of all, live a life that gives you purpose. This isn’t a journey for the faint of heart or for others to take for you. Accept ownership of your life rather than relinquishing that responsibility to others. It’s time to get motivated and take charge of your life. You owe it to yourself.
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We wanted to know how COVID-19 impacted businesses and their workforces. Did they need government funds? How many workers did they layoff or furlough? Are employees working from home now? How’s team morale? And perhaps most importantly, what are their plans for the future? This guide offers a pretty good idea of how business leaders are feeling, what keeps them up at night, and what approaches they’re taking to solve problems. Download the guide to see all the survey results and where your organization might stand comparatively.
Frank Sonnenberg Online
JUNE 30, 2020
Some people spend their whole life searching for happiness. While you may think wealth, power, and fame will make you happy, you may be looking in the wrong place. In fact, all the riches in the world won’t guarantee a happy and fulfilling life. You don’t have to search the globe for happiness because it already exists within you. As Glinda, the Good Witch in The Wizard of Oz , said, “You’ve always had the power, my dear. You just had to learn it for yourself.”
Frank Sonnenberg Online
JUNE 9, 2020
Everyone knows the Golden Rule. In fact, numerous religions espouse it, the most familiar version being, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” The question is, if most people know, and agree, with the principle, why don’t more folks live by that standard? Do you abide by the Golden Rule? When you do nothing, nothing happens. If you truly want to live by this principle, the first place to start is to understand its true meaning and how to apply it effectively.
Frank Sonnenberg Online
JUNE 2, 2020
Do you ask for help when you need it, or do you view it as a weakness? I’m sure I’m not alone in saying that I hate to ask for directions — even when I’m lost. I’m not sure it’s because I’m embarrassed that I’m clueless or because I don’t want to admit defeat, but my refusal to ask for directions is something I live with. In fact, there was a time when I’d drive around FOREVER until sheer frustration outweighed my unwillingness to ask. Then, only then, I’d ask for assistance. Sound familiar?
Frank Sonnenberg Online
APRIL 14, 2020
How does it feel to win something you don’t deserve, receive something you didn’t earn, or get what you want (in an underhanded way)? Contrast that with the exhilarating feeling of overcoming a big challenge, attaining success through hard work , or leaving a legacy that makes you proud. Do you live an honorable life? The greatest reward of success isn’t the money or acclaim; it’s the confidence and self-respect that success brings with it.
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Frank Sonnenberg Online
MARCH 31, 2020
A crisis brings out the best and the worst in us. Some people act like idiots, while others rise to the occasion and show what they’re made of. In fact, it astonishes me how some of the most unlikely people rise to the occasion by displaying extraordinary leadership, selflessness, and grace during tough times. How do you respond to a crisis? Are You Your Best Self in a Crisis? Times of crisis bring out the best in people. I hope they bring out the best in you.
Frank Sonnenberg Online
JUNE 23, 2020
Guest Post by LaRae Quy. Life can suck. There are days when things go so badly that you want a refund. We’ve all heard that acceptance is the key to good psychological health, but that does nothing more than leave us in a continual state of anxiety because what we all want is a semblance of control in the way our day unfolds around us. Since life is nothing but a series of problems, the fantasy of control gets flushed down the toilet on a regular basis.
Frank Sonnenberg Online
FEBRUARY 11, 2020
20 Ingredients of a Marriage Made in Heaven. The most important element of a happy marriage is choosing the right person. Here are 20 other ingredients of a marriage made in heaven: Make your marriage your top priority. There are many things vying for your attention. Know what matters most to you and put your heart into it. Agree on the BIG things. Shared beliefs and values form the heart of every successful relationship and can ultimately determine its success.
Frank Sonnenberg Online
MARCH 24, 2020
You’re Only as Good as the Company You Keep. People influence you every day. Do they inspire you or sap your energy? Do they serve as positive role models or negative influences? Do they want what’s best for you, or are they out for themselves? You probably know those who serve as positive or negative influences in your life. Surround yourself with top-notch people. It makes a huge difference. As they say, you’re only as good as the company you keep.
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When a crisis hits, HR technology gives business leaders the data, tools, and support to make important business decisions quickly. In this report, Josh Bersin breaks down the 4 key benefits of HR tech and demonstrates through case studies how business leaders can leverage it to solve problems and grow. Download this report to learn more!
Frank Sonnenberg Online
MARCH 10, 2020
If you’re a parent, I’m sure you remember the terrible twos. It’s a normal phase in a child’s development that’s marked by a burning desire for independence. The terrible twos are often accompanied by outbursts, frustration, and defiant behavior. Two-year olds have an insatiable curiosity to explore the world and find a way to get into everything. They’re simply testing boundaries and learning what they can get away with; in some cases, they face consequences for those actions.
Frank Sonnenberg Online
MAY 19, 2020
Some students excel at school. They’re in all advanced classes. They skim a page and remember the subject matter — forever. And they raise their hand before the question is even asked. What’s more, they’ve been known to wait till the last minute to study for tests, and you guessed it, they still walk away with an A. Good grades come easy to them. Then there’s the rest of us.
Frank Sonnenberg Online
FEBRUARY 18, 2020
How do you react to being told that you did a poor job? The first option is to defend yourself and try to prove the messenger wrong. The alternative is to ask why ? While the first way may protect your ego , the second approach demonstrates your desire to learn — and to do things better next time. How do you react to negative feedback? If you’ve ever watched a dance instructor, mentor, or football coach in action, they continually offer constructive feedback to improve the recipient’s game.
Frank Sonnenberg Online
APRIL 7, 2020
When you do someone a favor , do you expect them to reciprocate? Or do you give freely , without expecting something in return? Some people expect to benefit every time they do something. It doesn’t matter whether they go out of their way for a friend, perform a chore at home, put in extra hours at the office, bend over backward for a customer, or console a neighbor in a time of need. And even though they might not express their expectation right away, you know it’s coming.
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Frank Sonnenberg Online
JULY 14, 2020
There will be times when your principles are tested. The question is, how will you respond? Will you give in to temptation and compromise your standards or will you stand tall and remain true to your values? It’s easy to say what you’ll do in theory, but your actions count most when the rubber meets the road. Some folks want it both ways. They want to profit, but they also want to feel good about themselves.
Frank Sonnenberg Online
MAY 5, 2020
Your family is the most precious treasure in your life. The greatest gift you can give your children is a solid set of values. Take a moment to determine how your actions may be affecting them. Remember, if you don’t pass your values on to your kids, someone else will. If you: Teach your kids that money is everything, they’ll stop at nothing to get it. Do everything for your children, you’ll make them feel good for nothing.
Frank Sonnenberg Online
MAY 12, 2020
Did you ever wonder why some people get so much done while others accomplish so little? It doesn’t matter whether they’re at home or at work, some folks plow through stuff while others never seem to put anything to bed. Of course, you’ll hear ineffective people complain about their workload or the hours they’re putting in, but while they’re busy complaining, others are running circles around them.
Frank Sonnenberg Online
APRIL 28, 2020
Are You Planning to Go on a Diet? If your diet didn’t work last time, what makes you think it’ll work now? Before you step on the gas again, what did you learn from your last attempt? You did not fail. Your diet failed you! 6 Reasons Why Diets Fail. Here are six reasons why diets (and efforts to break other bad habits) fail: Wishes are just words. Hope without effort is destined to fail. Spend less time thinking and talking and more time doing. Don’t believe in fairytale solutions.
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SMB leaders are working day and night to navigate the COVID-19 crisis. Successfully managing it requires the CFO and HR leader to make complex decisions quickly, without rushing into an uncoordinated response. Foremost among these decisions will be cost containment. The way organizations manage costs now will determine how well they perform during and after COVID-19. Download our guide and start preparing for the future today.
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