Tim Milburn

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When Busyness Gets In The Way Of Business

Tim Milburn

You probably have a lot of things you’d like to do. If you’re like me, your calendar gets filled up pretty quickly. I’m learning that busyness is not the same thing as business. If I spend too much time on the first one, I don’t get much time to work on the last one. You ever feel like that? I am a big fan of lists. I am a Mac guy and use the app, Things (on my phone and laptop).

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When Will The Leader Emerge?

Tim Milburn

In my work with student leaders I’m often asked how one becomes a leader. My first response: Lead yourself first. That’s a given in each and every situation. But there are other ways that one can move into a the role of a leader – whether you’re in a position or not. Here are some of my ideas: A leader emerges when someone… · sees a need and meets it. · has an idea and implements it. · creates an activity and organizes it. · comes up with a plan and unleashes it. ·

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Self-Discipline Isn’t Multiple Choice

Tim Milburn

'If I’m going to take a test, I like to take multiple choice tests. That way I know the correct answer is there…somewhere. Even if I don’t know which one is correct, I can still guess. But self-discipline isn’t a multiple choice test. It’s a True / False test. I either have it or I don’t. I either do what I’m supposed to do or I don’t.

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Self-Discipline Isn’t Automatic

Tim Milburn

'Miranda Lambert has a song out entitled, Automatic. You can watch the music video below. The chorus of her song seems really appropriate for this next post on self-discipline. It goes like this: Hey what ever happened to waiting your turn Doing it all by hand, ’cause when everything is handed to you It’s only worth as much as the time put in It all just seems so good the way we had it Back before everything became automatic.

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Self-Discipline Isn’t Emotional

Tim Milburn

'“But I don’t feel like it.” I don’t know how many times I’ve said that, heard that, or read that when I challenged someone to follow through on their promise. How much of our life is directed by our emotions? How many times do we default to our feelings instead of our commitments? Photo Credit: kaneda99 via Compfight cc.

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Self-Discipline Isn’t Convenient

Tim Milburn

'Self-discipline sounds a lot like punishing myself. It’s all about sacrificing what I want to do for what I have to do. It’s “making myself do the thing I have to do, when it ought to be done, whether I like it or not.” (Huxley). Back in June, 2013, Time ran an article that described a study showing that Self-Disciplined People Are Happier. “…the researchers found a strong connection between higher levels of self-control and life satisfaction.

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Five Irrational Fears That Keep Us From Moving Forward

Tim Milburn

'If you are a human being (which means all alien beings can stop reading now) then you are going to experience fear. Fear is emotion – raw, unfiltered anxiety that has evolved over time to protect us from the painful and maybe fatal situations we encounter. Rational fear is good fear. It protects us. It is a healthy fear that keeps us from putting ourselves into the path of unnecessary danger.