Meet people where they are
Lead Change Blog
FEBRUARY 10, 2014
Posted in Leadership Development I sit on the board of directors for a small nonprofit that’s in the process of fine-tuning its mission and strategy.
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Lead Change Blog
FEBRUARY 10, 2014
Posted in Leadership Development I sit on the board of directors for a small nonprofit that’s in the process of fine-tuning its mission and strategy.
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