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SEPTEMBER 9, 2010

While the tips still apply to written communication, I haven’t written specifically about how to apply the model in emails and letters. He now enjoys speaking, writing, and teaching these relationship principles to others. It’s funny observing my behaviour. I skim emails and prefer these to be short and to the point.

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MAY 10, 2010

Check this post, for more insights on how to guess at a person’s DISC style. surround sound speaker and the home theatre system says: May 11, 2010 at 12:14 am [.] This article is from the Connecting With People series. Use the links below to read more from this series. Is there some way of connecting a 5.1

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NOVEMBER 8, 2010

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OCTOBER 6, 2010

In this post, I’m expanding on three of the actions with some additional thoughts on how to put them to work in your conflict resolution repertoire. Most of my older posts can be found at. Never show again. Get Email Updates

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JULY 18, 2010

Rules Without Relationship Breed Rebellion | Guy Harris: The Recovering Engineer says: August 3, 2010 at 9:28 am [.] Learn More… Comments One Response to “Task-Oriented vs People-Oriented: A Common Source of Conflict&# Trackbacks Check out what others are saying about this post. that you need both rules and relationship to make it work.

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MAY 9, 2010

A DISC Model Question You Should Ask of Yourself Effective Communication Skills: How to Quickly Guess a Person’s DISC Style If you liked this post, please tweet it, like it, share it, or leave a comment. DISC FAQs: Can I Change My Personality Style On Purpose? Related posts: DISC Model FAQ’s: Is Changing Your Behavior Phoney?

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The Recovering Engineer

MAY 11, 2010

Check this post, for more insights on how to guess at a person’s DISC style. Learn More… Comments One Response to “Communication Tips: Connecting With Outgoing, People-Oriented People&# genith says: July 21, 2010 at 4:38 am &# I like reading the whole article. This article is from the Connecting With People series.

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JANUARY 11, 2011

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FEBRUARY 3, 2011

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FEBRUARY 11, 2010

Related posts: How To Get People To Do What You Want Effective Communication: What DO You Want? Learn More… Comments 2 Responses to “The Positive Runs Out&# Nicole says: May 4, 2010 at 11:12 pm I agree with the participant. Reply Guy Harris says: May 4, 2010 at 11:25 pm Hi Nicole, Thanks for stopping by and leaving a comment.

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The Recovering Engineer

JUNE 21, 2010

Stop Being So Flucking Nice | Catherine Lawson says: July 12, 2010 at 2:40 am [.] To Be An Honest Blogger Without Being A Jerk Being Too Nice Can Hurt You How To Be Genuine With People You Dislike Is Being Too Nice Hurting Your [.] The title immediately caught my attention, and I had to take a look. . Reply What Do You Think?

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MAY 10, 2010

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NOVEMBER 2, 2010

November 2, 2010 by Guy Harris Filed under Communication Skills , Leadership Skills , Persuasion , Resolving Conflict Leave a Comment This morning, I read a great post by my friend and colleague Kevin Eikenberry. Effective Communication: What DO You Want? Most of my older posts can be found at. Never show again. Get Email Updates

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JUNE 7, 2010

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MAY 24, 2010

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MAY 12, 2010

Check this post, for more insights on how to guess at a person’s DISC style. Regards MANAL Reply Guy Harris says: June 9, 2010 at 11:38 pm Hi Manal, Thanks for taking the time to leave a comment. This article is from the Connecting With People series. Use the links below to read more from this series.

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JULY 13, 2010

During our conversation, we covered a number of important issues: How to deal with the role and relationship changes you face as a new supervisor. How to think about the relationship changes you face in the transition. This is the topic of the Bud to Boss workshop that Kevin Eikenberry and I developed). Never show again.

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MARCH 2, 2010

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JULY 23, 2010

Learn More… Comments 4 Responses to “Conflict Resolution Lesson: Recognize Redirected Aggression&# David Weimar says: July 24, 2010 at 9:58 pm The redirected aggression may not be as evident as Merlin’s, depending on one’s personality. Reply Guy Harris says: July 25, 2010 at 1:44 am Good point, Dave.

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The Recovering Engineer

MAY 15, 2010

Learn More… Comments 2 Responses to “Hear and Understand to be Heard and Understood&# florian borromeo says: May 15, 2010 at 11:47 pm That topic is awesome! Reply Guy Harris says: May 16, 2010 at 8:53 am Hi Florian, Thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts. Most of my older posts can be found at.

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MAY 18, 2010

Related posts: Effective Communication Skills: You Don’t Know Until You Ask Get Over Yourself To Develop Effective Communication Skills Effective Communication Skills: How to Quickly Guess a Person’s DISC Style Effective Communication: What DO You Want? This post was mentioned on Twitter by Edward Wiest and Guy Harris, Mass.LOMAP.

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MAY 12, 2010

Check this post, for more insights on how to guess at a person’s DISC style. Remember these suggestions the next time you interact with people who are slower-paced and people-oriented, and you will improve the odds that they listen to, understand, and take action on your message. This article is from the Connecting With People series.

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AUGUST 3, 2010

Like so many other issues that surface in the discussion of how to lead a team (business, sports, family, church, etc), the rule-relationship issue is a both-and scenario rather than an either-or scenario. They help us know what is and is not acceptable in the eyes of the people close to us and within larger groups of people.

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AUGUST 25, 2010

Anonymous says: August 25, 2010 at 7:24 pm Twitter Trackbacks… … Reply Mental Disorders 101 says: August 27, 2010 at 5:51 am Don?t Learn More… Comments 2 Responses to “Don’t Use an Illness Description for a Normal Behavior&# Trackbacks Check out what others are saying about this post. Never show again.

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FEBRUARY 24, 2010

Brad Pitt Celebrity Monitor says: February 25, 2010 at 1:49 am [.] Reply Pensacola Real Estate News » A Pensacola Real Estate Perspective … | Wyoming Real Estate says: February 25, 2010 at 7:11 am [.] That story illustrated my task nature and how I made a relational effort (calling home) into a [.] Reply What Do You Think?

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The Recovering Engineer

MAY 7, 2010

How to apply powerful psychological principles in a practical way to help you control your response and develop influence with others. Use These Conflict Resolution Tips To Get Your Team Performing Rather Than Bickering says: May 11, 2010 at 3:38 pm [.] Only the context changes. The principles remain the same.)

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The Recovering Engineer

APRIL 19, 2010

Using this post as a starting point, we can then look at how to avoid or minimize this problem in our lives. In this post, I will quickly show a model of what often happens during conflict escalation. By understanding the model, we can plan positive steps to back conflicts down after they start. Most of my older posts can be found at.

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JUNE 3, 2010

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MARCH 12, 2010

Related posts: Using the DISC Model: How to Create Stress for Other People Conflict Resolution Tips: Task Oriented People with People Oriented Individuals Communication Tips: Connecting With Outgoing, People-Oriented People DISC Model FAQ’s: Is Changing Your Behavior Phoney?

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JULY 2, 2010

Three Actions You Can Take to De-escalate Conflicts | Guy Harris: The Recovering Engineer says: October 6, 2010 at 10:09 pm [.] Learn More… Comments One Response to “Exercise Your Power of Choice in Conflict Resolution&# Trackbacks Check out what others are saying about this post. Reply What Do You Think? Never show again.

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The Recovering Engineer

FEBRUARY 1, 2010

Related posts: Effective Communication Skills: You Don’t Know Until You Ask Effective Communication Skills: How to Quickly Guess a Person’s DISC Style Effective Communication Skills: Use And More than But Effective Communication: Begin With The End In Mind Effective Communication: What DO You Want? says: February 9, 2010 at 11:06 am [.]

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AUGUST 11, 2010

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JULY 21, 2010

Learn More… Comments 2 Responses to “Intentions – A Poem That Came to Me While Cleaning&# Dale Suslick says: July 22, 2010 at 9:53 pm Profound! Reply Guy Harris says: July 23, 2010 at 10:10 am Hi Dale, Thanks for stopping by my blog. Not only do you need to ask they need to be willing to share. A wise man told me simple.

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FEBRUARY 2, 2011

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MARCH 27, 2010

The point of this blog is to learn how to get over yourself and to get out of your own way when it comes to interacting, building relationships. Reply Guy Harris says: March 30, 2010 at 11:02 pm Hi Lori, Thanks for stopping by and leaving your comment. leading, and communication with others. Put the best construction on everything.

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MARCH 18, 2010

Learn More… Comments 5 Responses to “Effective Communication: Begin With The End In Mind&# musiclyricsnow.net says: March 19, 2010 at 5:34 pm This is a good post, I stumbled across your Family Guy article while looking for song lyrics. Animaux says: March 19, 2010 at 2:20 am [.]

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SEPTEMBER 26, 2010

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