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Stop Leading! You’re Bleeding Off Passion

Lead Change Blog

We start with a standard definition of leadership—influencing people to act toward achieving a goal. Leaders influence by selling— outlining to followers the benefits of pursuing a goal, making a change, or embracing a new initiative. A partnership is a commitment to a dialogue, not an act of directing. Here are a few solutions.

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How to Make Your Performance Review Process Suck Less

Next Level Blog

If you’ve done a good job of staying engaged with your people throughout the year, you shouldn’t have to use the annual review to deliver a surprise message or drop the hammer about something that didn’t get done. Talk about their work and personal goals and connect them with the goals and the work of your group as a whole.

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The Secret to Success: It’s Not a Secret

Strategy Driven

Visualize your goals and then craft a plan for achieving them. Successful people are viewed as special, possessing unique talents, vision, and unflagging commitment. High achievers: Identify goals. Whether they are called ambitions, purposes or aims, goals can help you live a meaningful, productive life.

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The Best Kind of Accountability Coach

Your Voice of Encouragement

And then he used a phrase to describe me that I cherish to this day: VELVET HAMMER I pride myself on speaking the truth to people, but I try to do it gently, to maintain the other person’s dignity and self-esteem. Who would make the best “velvet hammer” for you? The goal is to keep you on track with frequent touch-points.

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3 Qualities of a Great Mentor

Steve Farber

If you don’t think you have a mentor yet, try looking at others who’ve achieved their goals and see what they learned from their mentors. Try building a tree fort with no hammer or nails (not that I’ve done that). Few things are more frustrating than trying to take on a project without the right equipment or tools.

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Know Your History, Purpose and Direction

CoachStation

Understanding your passions, why you do what you do and your core beliefs will help you understand not only who you are, but help to drive your future goals and direction. Our actions show genuine commitment to clients and caring about improvement through the results. Not everyone can answer these easily, however.

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3 Qualities of a Great Mentor

Steve Farber

If you don’t think you have a mentor yet, try looking at others who’ve achieved their goals and see what they learned from their mentors. Try building a tree fort with no hammer or nails (not that I’ve done that). Few things are more frustrating than trying to take on a project without the right equipment or tools.

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