The Recovering Engineer

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Learning to Embrace Messiness

The Recovering Engineer

As I wrote a list of things for which I am grateful, I looked around the mess in my home, and I saw evidence of: One daughter’s recent high school graduation and the celebration that followed. A wife who worked hard to keep up with laundry during the last three action-packed weeks.

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The Leadership Secret to Getting More Done

The Recovering Engineer

I was expected to follow the rules, regulations, and procedures as defined by people senior to me. In addition to following procedures, I was expected to observe work practices, read procedures, and notice bottlenecks in processes to look for ways to make them better and more efficient.

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Employee Engagement: Lessons From Our Book Launch

The Recovering Engineer

So, the follow-up question becomes, how do you create the belief that leads to engagement. Start with relationships, and you’ll likely wind up with engagement. It’s not the Holy Grail. It really does exist. Engagement happens when people believe in what they are doing. The lesson for leaders? Photo by Martin Cathrae.

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How to Plan a Wedding Reception in Seven Days

The Recovering Engineer

Many things happened leading up to the decision, but the simple answer for the question “Why would you do that?” ” comes down to my daughter’s fiance (now husband) receiving orders to Germany following the completion of his training as an Army medic in March. We have no immediate family here.

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What a Diverted United Airlines Flight Can Teach You about Conflict Resolution

The Recovering Engineer

In the days that followed, I heard of two more similar disputes on other flights. Ramping up your energy level or the strength of your demand is tempting. Again, my initial response was much like the newscasters and commentators I saw reporting on the incidents… “Really! It’s both tempting and dangerous.

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How to Plan a Wedding Reception in Seven Days

The Recovering Engineer

Many things happened leading up to the decision, but the simple answer for the question “Why would you do that?” ” comes down to my daughter’s fiance (now husband) receiving orders to Germany following the completion of his training as an Army medic in March. We have no immediate family here.

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Conflict Resolution Mistakes: Stating Opinions As Facts | Guy.

The Recovering Engineer

At other times, we might state our opinion and then follow it up with a “That being the case… &# With one comment, we build a whole argument on our perspective. I believe that each of us has a perspective and that each person’s perspective needs to be heard.