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Three Simple Things You Can Do Today to Boost Your Influence

Change Starts Here

You can believe that people just don’t want to change, or you can choose to be curious about the underlying source of their resistance. In his book Influence , Robert Cialdini lists reciprocity as one of the principles of influence. You can feel like you’re banging your head against a wall, or you can gear yourself up for a challenge.

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Getting People to Believe in Something They Can’t Yet Imagine

Harvard Business Review

You must do that in the face of vast forces arrayed against innovation within an established organization, which include inertia, resistance to change, fear of failure, financial disincentives, and the tendency of people and organizations to favor what has worked in the past. It is hard to win over someone who cannot see what you see.

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12 Reads for 2012

LDRLB

Influence by Robert Cialdini. This is the classic text on how to persuade others and resist persuasion yourself based on solid research into psychology. A fantastic case for a better management perspective, mainly that little things like progress can affect big things like profitability.

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Yes, You Can You Learn to Sell

Harvard Business Review

many of us may resist the idea that this is part of our job description (or avoid taking positions for which it would be) because we believe we lack that ability, just as we avoided calculus in college like the plague because we weren't "math people." Selling, moving, persuading, influencing. Do you want to be a people mover?

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Getting Ahead by Leading Across

Harvard Business Review

When they voiced concerns about the business and organizational impact of her recommendations, she dismissed them as "old school" and resistant to change. In his classic HBR article, " Harnessing the Power of Persuasion " Robert Cialdini outlines a number of variables involved in an individual's ability to influence others.

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How to Give Negative Feedback When Your Organization Is “Nice”

Harvard Business Review

No matter what you hear, do not resist, explain, defend, or push back. With these barriers, how can a nice organization create a culture of candid feedback? Demonstrate you are serious enough about shifting the culture to do the hard work to personally improve. Commit to being better at candor and feedback and share a plan to get there.

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Get People to Listen to You When You’re Not Seen as an Expert

Harvard Business Review

One of the most powerful forms of influence, according to psychologist Robert Cialdini’s famous analysis, is authority — often derived from perceived expertise. With these strategies, you can begin to overcome others’ resistance and make sure your voice is heard.