The Recovering Engineer

JANUARY 15, 2010

Since I have been in the other driver’s position, encountering a snow drift on my side of the road while the other driver has basically clear pavement, I was aware that they were in a position where they might feel a little out of control. He is an engineer by nature, by training, and experience.

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The Recovering Engineer

MARCH 2, 2010

If you want to resolve the conflict, carefully consider which of your positions are based in fact and which are based in your opinion or perspective. He is an engineer by nature, by training, and experience. If you want to win the argument, go ahead and state your opinion as a fact. It’s okay to have an opinion.

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The Recovering Engineer

FEBRUARY 16, 2010

Take a walk, read something positive, or just get away from the situation for a moment to carefully consider your emotional state and it’s possible impact on your decision making. He is an engineer by nature, by training, and experience. Did you just learn that you need to invest money you don’t have to repair your car?

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The Recovering Engineer

JUNE 3, 2010

The Positive Runs Out Communicating About Change – Connect With Emotions Tags: emotional control , emotional intelligence , emotions , get over yourself , human behavior , intention , self awareness , self control , understanding people Guy Harris describes himself as a recovering engineer.

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The Recovering Engineer

APRIL 19, 2010

By understanding the model, we can plan positive steps to back conflicts down after they start. He is an engineer by nature, by training, and experience. Using this post as a starting point, we can then look at how to avoid or minimize this problem in our lives. I’ll share more on that later.

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The Recovering Engineer

FEBRUARY 16, 2010

Take a walk, read something positive, or just get away from the situation for a moment to carefully consider your emotional state and it’s possible impact on your decision making. He is an engineer by nature, by training, and experience. Did you just learn that you need to invest money you don’t have to repair your car?

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The Recovering Engineer

FEBRUARY 9, 2010

In all of these situations, you can, like a lifeguard, be in the position of a person approaching someone else when they are under distress because their needs are not being met. He is an engineer by nature, by training, and experience. Picture a drowning man. He is flailing in the water.

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The Recovering Engineer

MAY 20, 2010

Related posts: Commit to Continual Learning – Life Lessons From Cal Ripken, Jr One Way To Guarantee That Your Suggestion Is Ignored The Positive Runs Out Tags: astd conference , courage , kevin eikenberry group , Leadership Skills , persuasion , speaking in public Guy Harris describes himself as a recovering engineer.

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The Recovering Engineer

DECEMBER 16, 2008

The more you focus on future actions to “fix&# the problem, the more you improve the odds that they will engage with you in a positive way. He is an engineer by nature, by training, and experience. They often want to get moving rather than talk about past events or feelings.

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The Recovering Engineer

APRIL 23, 2010

Alternative stories can stop our perception of threat and lead us to a more positive, rational, and engaged response than either a heated attack or an icy withdrawal. He is an engineer by nature, by training, and experience. We can act to resolve the communication breakdown rather than act to escalate the conflict.

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The Recovering Engineer

MARCH 18, 2010

By telling her colleague that she will likely have questions, she is: Establishing reasonable expectations with her colleague, Preparing her colleague to receive the call, and Showing that she is concerned with a positive outcome. He is an engineer by nature, by training, and experience.

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The Recovering Engineer

JUNE 7, 2010

Very seldom will anyone respond positively to you if you blame them. (It He is an engineer by nature, by training, and experience. For example, “I yelled at you because you yelled at me.” While it feels a bit like self-defense, it actually triggers conflict escalation. It could happen. It’s just not very likely.)

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The Recovering Engineer

MARCH 27, 2010

He is an engineer by nature, by training, and experience. Since you are in control of your thoughts, choose to make the story a good one – a positive one – one that puts you in a better frame of mind and puts the other person in a good light – or at least one to be sympathized with.

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The Recovering Engineer

JANUARY 31, 2010

I’m not even saying that I’m always good at accepting detours with a positive attitude. He is an engineer by nature, by training, and experience. The detour might actually be a little bit of fun to follow. I’m not suggesting that you should look for detours. Some of my greatest lessons in life have come from detours.

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The Recovering Engineer

SEPTEMBER 7, 2009

When I permit someone’s perspective, I place myself in a superior position to them. He is an engineer by nature, by training, and experience. When I look at these definitions, I see what Elie Wiesel spoke of in his answer. When I tolerate another person, I permit their existence. I endure their presence.

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The Recovering Engineer

DECEMBER 14, 2010

He is an engineer by nature, by training, and experience. Now about that silver bullet……… Reply Guy Harris says: December 15, 2010 at 10:37 pm Jenny, Thanks for the positive feedback. He has degrees in Chemical Engineering and he served as a Nuclear Engineering officer in the U.S. Hope you’re doing great.

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The Recovering Engineer

JUNE 16, 2011

I just finished co-facilitating a single day training session with my friend and colleague Kevin Eikenberry that was part of a longer four-day training program. On the guitar, I now know how to make my left hand do the finger positions to do a number of chords, and I can play them acceptably. Other times I struggle.

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The Recovering Engineer

FEBRUARY 27, 2010

He is an engineer by nature, by training, and experience. People cast aspersions at each other, attack the character of the other person, rigidly stake out positions, and seek to win rather than to resolve. He has degrees in Chemical Engineering and he served as a Nuclear Engineering officer in the U.S.

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The Recovering Engineer

FEBRUARY 27, 2010

He is an engineer by nature, by training, and experience. People cast aspersions at each other, attack the character of the other person, rigidly stake out positions, and seek to win rather than to resolve. He has degrees in Chemical Engineering and he served as a Nuclear Engineering officer in the U.S.

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The Recovering Engineer

MARCH 31, 2010

Here are some observations to support this position. He is an engineer by nature, by training, and experience. I can, though, use four basic style descriptors to create a frame of reference that allows me to understand them better when we interact.&#

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The Recovering Engineer

AUGUST 16, 2012

Complex problems – like fixing the accounting system or creating a maintenance training program – usually have many possible right answers. In fact, your ability to solve these problems likely contributed to your promotion to a leadership position. As a leader, very few of the significant problems you face will be simple.

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The Recovering Engineer

MARCH 15, 2010

I don’t recall a single person speaking positively about the hour of daylight we would “gain&# at the end of the normal business day. And here’s my observation: People tend to notice loss more than gain and to see the negative before they see the positive. He is an engineer by nature, by training, and experience.

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