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Stop Trying to Ask Good Questions

Lead Change Blog

Many leadership books and coach training programs outline rules for asking good questions. Common ones include: Don’t ask closed questions. Ask open questions that start with What, When, Where, and How. Avoid Why questions. Coaching and asking questions are not synonymous.

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How to Stop My Boss from Wasting My Time with Their Bad Delegation

Let's Grow Leaders

Why Do I Even Try? She looked at what I’d done and frowned.” “Pretty soon she says, ‘This isn’t what I wanted.’” “But it’s what you asked for!” I did exactly what she asked, but then she criticizes the work and makes me start over? If she’s just going to waste my time, why bother trying?” What did she say?”

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The Hidden Power of Vulnerability: Why Great Leaders Dare to Be Wrong

Let's Grow Leaders

But could this need to have the answers stop you from achieving even more? A Selfish Question Recently, after Karin Hurt’s TEDx Rockville presentation (the video won’t be available for a couple of months), I was talking with Haley Foster , who has coached hundreds of TEDx presenters. Why Is It So Hard to Be Wrong?

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How Do I Change My Reputation as a Leader? (Asking for a Friend)

Let's Grow Leaders

If you’re looking to change your reputation, today’s Asking for a Friend is a start. If you’re looking to change your reputation, today’s Asking for a Friend is a start. She’s a good person and very nice, BUT she doesn’t follow through on her commitments.” Leadership is never handled.

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How To Rearrange Your Brain for Success

Leading Blog

Love “has a lot to do with getting your brain in the right place to make good decisions. Jacobs provides an instructive example from his family life: When we put our kids to bed at night, we’d ask them the same question many parents do: How was your day? Sometimes, we’d hear the good, sometimes the bad, and sometimes the ugly.

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Help Your Boss Stop Wasting Time with Bad Delegation

Let's Grow Leaders

They ask for something to be redone over and over, never seeming to know what they want? Or they change their mind after you’ve already finished what you thought they asked for? How to Help Your Boss Stop Wasting Time with Bad Delegation ( 02:07 ): A question of bad delegation? Why bother trying?

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Share Your Ideas: Practical Ways to Ensure Your Voice is Heard

Let's Grow Leaders

Or, perhaps you’re not quite sure if your idea is a good idea. Or, perhaps you’re not quite sure if your idea is a good idea. Can you imagine how much better things could be if we all came to work with one important question on our minds, “How can we make things better?” Think back on your career.

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