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How To Rearrange Your Brain for Success

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The most valuable part of the book for me was the first chapter on transforming how you use your mind. Love is in an expansive emotional state that allows you to neutralize conflict and get everyone to a better place.” How do you get there? What an easy create an optimistic frame of mind! Love He begins with love.

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How Do I Encourage My Coworker to Take Initative? (without coming across as a jerk)

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What should I do? You’re NOT the boss of them. And, it’s impacting you, your work, and your results. What Does It Mean to Take Initiative? What Does It Mean to Take Initiative? If you want someone to take initiative, a good place to start is to be clear about what success looks like.

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Beyond the Drama: How to De-Escalate an Emotional Conversation at Work

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What to Say Next to Destress an Emotional Conversation at Work When people are fired up, angry, and defensive, it’s tough to have a productive conversation. Why are you getting angry? Can’t you see how right I am? What’s wrong with you?” Never use the microwave in anger–especially if you work at home.)

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Feeling Invisible? What to Say When You’re Feel Invisible or Ignored

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Powerful Phrases to Move From Feeling Invisible to Invincible If you feel invisible at work you’re in good company. The job was interesting to me, and I immediately wondered “Why they hadn’t asked me to do it?” The job was interesting to me, and I immediately wondered “Why they hadn’t asked me to do it?”

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Confidential Information – What to Say When You Can’t Say Anything

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Someone asks you a direct question about confidential information. If you tell the person what you know, you violate confidentiality. But if you lie to them, you violate their trust. Your word is only as good as the next person who you want to like you. Maybe it’s a personnel matter.

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12 G.O.A.T. Powerful Phrases to Instantly Boost Your Communication Skills

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Episode 252: In this episode, David introduces you to 12 effective phrases to help you improve your communication skills and effectively navigate workplace conflict. You’ll learn to express care and investment through phrases like, “I care about you, this team, this project.” 01:54] Exciting offer alert!

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Possible: How to Transform Any Conflict

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But if you start from that assumption, that is most likely where you will end up—it’s impossible. But if you start from possibility, you might just end up with a practical solution to de-escalate the conflict. You become what William Ury calls a possibilist. Thankfully, we have a choice.”

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