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What Great Leaders Know That Good Leaders Don’t about Self-Regulation

General Leadership

If our EQ capacity empowers us to effectively leverage our emotions to bring about better business outcomes, then – our ability to exercise self-regulation powers our EQ capacity. Consider the following: If EQ is to us, what an engine is to a car – then self-regulation is the drive train that powers how we operate.

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Resistance and Change – A Personal Experience | Aspire-CS

Persuasive Powerhouse

Thought-full Thursday: Starting From What Is » Resistance and Change – A Personal Experience September 22nd, 2010 | Author: Mary Jo Asmus This is a more personal post than I usually write. The biggest challenge I experienced was that of letting go of my own resistance to accepting that I had something to learn.

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Why You Might Eventually Do Something You Don't Want to Do…

The Recovering Engineer

For now, here’s the short version: self-control eventually runs out. In other words, you can only resist so long before you “run out&# of self-control. Since one of the recurring themes here is “get over yourself,&# the concept of depleting self-control is vitally important to understand.

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Three Actions You Can Take to De-escalate Conflicts | Guy Harris.

The Recovering Engineer

Resist the urge to take advantage of their show of vulnerability. He has degrees in Chemical Engineering and he served as a Nuclear Engineering officer in the U.S. He is an engineer by nature, by training, and experience. Just own your contribution. Just forgive graciously. Learn More… What Do You Think?

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Successful People in the United States of America

Coaching Tip

Groups that instill this kind of drive in their members have a special advantage in America; because contemporary American culture teaches a contrary message--a message of self-acceptance and living in the moment. This unlikely combination of qualities is part of a potent cultural package that generates drive: a need to prove oneself.

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How to Bring Breakthrough Ideas to Life

Skip Prichard

This is our tendency to see the world through the distorting lens of our professional experience – as engineers, as accountants, lawyers, teachers or whatever. The first antidote is to be aware of that bias and think through how it influences your thinking at different stages of innovation.

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Followership : Blog | Executive Coaching | CO2 Partners

CO2

Self-Starters: Seeking Forgiveness Rather than Permission As depicted in the graphic, the Curphy-Roellig model can be used to assess current followership types. Self-Starters, such as Bob and Vonda, are those individuals who are passionate about the team and will exert considerable effort to make it successful.