Coaching Tip

NOVEMBER 8, 2013

Asking questions that you know the answer to is fake talk. Source: John Stoker: Overcoming Fake Talk: How to Hold REAL Conversations that Create Respect, Build Relationships, and Get Results. . Talking to Yourself to Become a Better Leader. Ask the Coach. . Related articles. People Reading.

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Joseph Lalonde

JANUARY 13, 2014

When we feel we don’t know what we’re talking. When we feel we’re fakes. The leadership trials you’ve gone through and overcome. This is how you overcome the fear of public speaking. Question: How have you overcome fear in your life? Leadership fear overcoming' I’m terrified.

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Leading Blog

NOVEMBER 28, 2013

But here’s a caution: You can’t fake this stuff … for long. But the best way to overcome this unproductive desire is to practice being a judge. Develop a reputation as a person who, rather than talking a good game, actually plays a good game. One who, instead of talking about being honest, is honest. Set the proper frame.

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Lead Change Blog

APRIL 2, 2019

In this guest post, Fred Halstead shares seven habits that can undermine a leader’s ability to listen, and tips for how to overcome them. Instead of long talking sessions, people learn practical tools and behaviors and apply them at work with co-workers. Connect with Dan on Twitter at @greatleadership. Beth Beutler of H.O.P.E.

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Great Leadership By Dan

AUGUST 29, 2017

The three most common responses I hear when I talk to employees about their employee recognition program are apathy (“Yea, I guess we do. You can't fake it. ” The result is that the many employee recognition programs have been developed in ways that make recognition empty and meaningless. I don’t go any more”), sarcasm (“What a joke!

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Coaching Tip

JUNE 4, 2015

John Stoker: Overcoming Fake Talk: How to Hold REAL Conversations that Create Respect, Build Relationships, and Get Results. Kerr: The Executive Checklist: A Guide for Setting Direction and Managing Change. Kim Cameron: Positive Leadership: Strategies for Extraordinary Performance.

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Lead from Within

JUNE 2, 2015

You might not recognize these people at first, because they like to talk about being of service and make a show of being obliging. They talk like leaders because they’re trying to fake it till they make it. They don’t need to compensate for their limitations but instead work to overcome them. Connect with Lolly Daskal.

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Roundtable Talk

MARCH 23, 2010

→ Are you still faking it AFTER you’ve made it? Dr. Young has lots of resources and courses to help you overcome imposter syndrome, so visit her website for more info at www.impostersyndrome.com. Fifty-eight is too old to be feeling that you’re still faking it. RoundtableTalk Where ambitious leaders meet. Don’t you think?

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Harvard Business Review

MAY 13, 2016

Instead, they’re far more likely to assume that your subpar performance is an essential trait — making it extremely challenging to overcome their negative perception. If you’ve developed a reputation for being quiet and never speaking up, it won’t suffice to talk once in a meeting.

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Harvard Business Review

MARCH 22, 2012

Nothing in the long run can overcome a deficit of accomplishment. But along the way you can foster trust in your competence through some simple actions: Talk about the why and how of decisions you make and actions you take. Don't try to fake knowledge. Admit mistakes, as well, and talk about what you learned from them.

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Harvard Business Review

SEPTEMBER 22, 2011

Or, more subtle, ask your boss for coffee and then, on the way in, walk by your office with her and ask if she has a couple of minutes to talk to you. In our study, we gave some of the visitors a fake negotiation skills test and then provided them with false feedback.

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Harvard Business Review

JUNE 11, 2013

But how can a company overcome the not-my-problem mind-set? For one thing, their high-profile positions make it easy for hackers to dig up a lot of information about their activities and interests, and that data can be used to craft fake messages. Her thinking was: This is IT''s problem; why should I have to read all that?

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Harvard Business Review

APRIL 6, 2016

People with growth mindsets (incremental theorists) see outcomes not as evidence of who they are but as evidence of what they could improve in the future and what challenges they could overcome. People induced to adopt fixed mindsets were more concerned that the fake rejection would change how they and others saw themselves.

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Harvard Business Review

JULY 30, 2014

There may be a tendency not to want to share personal details at work, but anecdotes that illustrate struggle, failure, and barriers overcome are what make leaders appear authentic and accessible. But when the storyteller talks about how great they are, the audience shuts down.” A market challenge that needs to be overcome?

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