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Sometimes You Just Need to Ask

Lead Change Blog

How will you know if you don’t ask? Sometimes you just need to ask. I decided to ask, and I did so by going on tour – a listening tour. Feedback from one of my team’s managers made me realize that I could do a better job empathizing and responding to the needs of my team.

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Feeling Invisible? What to Say When You’re Feel Invisible or Ignored

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Powerful Phrases to Move From Feeling Invisible to Invincible If you feel invisible at work you’re in good company. The job was interesting to me, and I immediately wondered “Why they hadn’t asked me to do it?” This was a powerful lesson that when you feel overlooked, you must start by seeing yourself. Silly, right?

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Overloaded at Work: How to Ask For the Support You Need

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What to say next when you’re overloaded at work (without sounding whiny) Ever found yourself cackling at the monstrous to-do list glaring back at you, thinking “Right, that’s not happening,” only to gulp back a sob as you realize none of it’s optional? You’re overloaded at work.

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Failure to Communicate: What to Do When Your Boss (or Team) Don’t Get It

Let's Grow Leaders

Frustrated that they “just don’t get it?” ” You have a chance to lead and overcome a failure to communicate. Those moments where the thread of understanding seems to unravel, leaving you feeling exasperated and silently screaming “Don’t they understand?” Sometimes this happens.

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How To Rearrange Your Brain for Success

Leading Blog

The most valuable part of the book for me was the first chapter on transforming how you use your mind. Love is in an expansive emotional state that allows you to neutralize conflict and get everyone to a better place.” How do you get there? We need to acknowledge them and then reframe them in a positive light.

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Stuck in a Rut? 7 Questions to Inspire New Thinking on Your Team

Let's Grow Leaders

Despite all the change going on, have you noticed your team sometimes gets stuck in a rut of uninspiring routines? But, is it giving your team what they need most, now? ” And it’s not just managers who can get stuck in a rut. .” ” And it’s not just managers who can get stuck in a rut.

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How to Stop My Boss from Wasting My Time with Their Bad Delegation

Let's Grow Leaders

You can lessen your frustration and help solve bad delegation by aligning expectations. Pretty soon she says, ‘This isn’t what I wanted.’” “But it’s what you asked for!” It’s not what we need. We need to do this differently.” I did exactly what she asked, but then she criticizes the work and makes me start over?