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Don't Let Them Underestimate You

Harvard Business Review

But the best plan, of course, is to ensure we''re vigilant upfront about conveying our expertise — and that if we falter in an encounter, we move quickly to correct those misimpressions. Career planning Managing yourself Networking' Some people begin to doubt themselves: should I actually be going back to graduate school?

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The Fear That's Holding Back Your Business

Harvard Business Review

Or they may take the "high road" and profess a distaste for self-promotion, vowing that their reputation will speak for itself and quality will eventually triumph. Indeed, psychologist Robert Cialdini suggests that asking for favors can actually be a powerful way to get people to like you better, because they become invested in your success.

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How To Get Others To See Your Potential

Harvard Business Review

But you can avoid the problem entirely, a powerhouse group of researchers led by Jeffrey Pfeffer of Stanford and Robert Cialdini of Arizona State discovered, by having someone else do the bragging for you. Career planning Managing yourself Networking' Find a wingman. It''s true: no one likes a braggart.