Skip Prichard

JUNE 3, 2019

Dealing with Conflict. Are you uncomfortable with conflict? It’s a common question, and I always enjoy talking with leaders and experts about how they handle conflict. As a conflict and communication skills professional, she works closely with leaders of small businesses and corporate teams. ” -Judy Ringer.

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Leading Blog

OCTOBER 13, 2013

Malcom Gladwell wants us to rethink how we think about the giants in our lives whether they be outsized opponents, disabilities, misfortunes, or oppression. First, “much of what we consider valuable in our world arises out of these kinds of lopsided conflicts, because the act of facing overwhelming odds produces greatness and beauty.”

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Lead from Within

JUNE 15, 2018

To get a solution you must first reframe the problem. It’s easy to recall all the things you dislike about your coworker, but instead work to reframe them by focusing on their good qualities. As a coach, when I help people navigate conflicts, I always have each person state a few things that they appreciate about the other.

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N2Growth Blog

OCTOBER 21, 2010

Do you tuck tail and run desiring to avoid conflict at all costs? Whether you see opposing views and positions as conflict or opportunity says a lot about you as a person, and especially gives insightful commentary on who you are as a leader. That said, I only really have the patience for intellectually honest discourse.

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The Recovering Engineer

MARCH 31, 2010

I just want to use the study results to get an emotional hook that allows me to “get&# what she is saying in a different way than I would “get&# it if I had no way to reframe what I was hearing and seeing. Sometimes people take exception to this simple answer. To which, I reply: “You’re right.

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Strategy Driven

SEPTEMBER 2, 2016

Business dilemmas, solutions and analyses are framed first in the field of reference (pop culture teachings of their youth) and then reframed in modern business context. Understand conflicting societal goals. Most people are more products of pop culture than they are of training. Conceptualize your own personal goals.

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Harvard Business Review

FEBRUARY 19, 2018

We turn to productivity tools or apps that promise to help us manage mounting pressures or we look for ways to alleviate our discomfort: find a different job, hire a new employee to take on an increased workload, or switch careers. Reframe how you think about stress. Create a healthy relationship to control.

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Harvard Business Review

FEBRUARY 11, 2014

Three weeks after the wedding, we had our first fight. An extreme conflict avoider, I packed my bags and walked out. But addressing and resolving conflicts requires enormous mental and emotional strength, which is why many of us try to avoid it. Clarify the conflict by talking through each party’s stance.

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Harvard Business Review

MAY 19, 2016

” Fear of backlash is a genuine concern that negotiating will undermine the trust and rapport you have with the other party, consequently damaging the relationship. I recommend you begin by stating your honest intention regarding the continuation of the relationship. To overcome this fear, try to reframe the negotiation.

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Harvard Business Review

OCTOBER 19, 2018

In our nearly five-year research program on the subject, we’ve discovered that although 95% of people think they’re self-aware, only 10 to 15% actually are. And if we can’t, what can we do to minimize their damage on our success and happiness? In a survey we conducted with 467 working adults in the U.S.

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Harvard Business Review

AUGUST 8, 2014

As a species, we have developed a “threat response,” a cascade of physiological, emotional, and cognitive events that occur when we perceive a conflict. Recent neuroscience research has shown that our brains and bodies can respond to certain interpersonal situations the same way we react to literal threats to our physical safety.

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Harvard Business Review

AUGUST 13, 2015

“Conflict avoiders are generally people who value harmony in the workplace,” writes Amy Gallo in the HBR Guide to Managing Conflict at Work. These aren’t passive behaviors, but active things they do to prevent conflict from becoming an issue.” The first step is acknowledging your conflict aversion.

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Harvard Business Review

JULY 14, 2015

But while co-leadership can be energizing and rewarding, if the relationship isn’t strong, the arrangement can easily become draining and frustrating. We tend to focus on how we navigate this relationship for ourselves, but it can be equally tricky for others to navigate “us.” We don’t lead alone. Leading Teams.

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Harvard Business Review

NOVEMBER 28, 2018

Our study subjects sometimes struggled to be seen as leaders, separate from colleagues and team members, while also developing close relationships. But until we get there, female executives still have to navigate these tensions. We wanted to know how successful women do it, day-to-day. ” Strategies for Managing the Tensions.

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Harvard Business Review

MAY 11, 2016

Our verbal and nonverbal actions limit or expand the options of others. If you are known for a tendency to avoid conflict, for example, others can generate conditions that will cause you to pull back, apologize, or walk away. But if we have a repertoire of replies and comebacks at our fingertips, we can opt out of predictable patterns.

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Harvard Business Review

OCTOBER 18, 2018

Naturally, many start to question the direction of their organization, as these new behaviors and practices appear to conflict with the values of their profession. When staff view innovations and changes as clashing with longstanding patient care values, they are less likely to adopt new behaviors and practices. Insight Center.

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Harvard Business Review

MAY 25, 2015

He had been with the company three years, had a reputation for taking an innovative approach, and had good relationships with his team. So amid all of these conflicted feelings, how do you know if your employee is sill an A-player worthy of another chance? Neither do our employees.

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Harvard Business Review

MAY 22, 2017

Despite our best intentions, conversations can frequently veer into difficult territory , producing frustration, resentment, and wasted time and effort. Shift the relationship from opposition to partnership. HBR Guide to Dealing with Conflict. Reframe your purpose from convincing to learning. Nothing got resolved.

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Harvard Business Review

JUNE 13, 2012

The challenge winners make a virtue of the inescapable reality of our interdependence — with our closest neighbors, far-away actors, and the natural environment. That's the spirit behind the story of Sustainable Harvest and it's approach to "relationship coffee." Hack by Valeria Budinich, Ashoka.

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Harvard Business Review

JANUARY 30, 2012

Fortunately, with the right tactics, you can still have a productive working relationship with someone you can't stand. Sutton notes that we all have a tendency to look for confirmation of our own opinions, but we should also resist it. Our favorite person in the world is ourselves. What the Experts Say.

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Harvard Business Review

JUNE 8, 2011

Examples abound of other recent failures: Hewlett-Packard CEO Mark Hurd resigned for submitting false expense reports concerning his relationship with a contractor. Simplistic notions of good and bad only cloud our understanding of why good leaders lose their way, and how this could happen to any of us. The dark side of leadership.

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